10 reasons why you should & should not date a bodybuilder

 

 

I have been with a bodybuilder for years now, and at first I thought I had it made. I mean to find a guy who maintains his abs on a regular basis which is my number one pleasure of men, come on, jackpot! But over time being with a sexy, muscular, and built bodybuilder has its annoyances sometimes. My bodybuilder husband and I have kids together and it has been a great for years, but sometimes due to the fact that he is a bodybuilder I have to scream as well as love him more. I'm always asked how is it living with a bodybuilder? What truly comes first, you or the weights? How is he in bed? So I composed a list of ten reasons why you should or should not date a bodybuilder

10 reasons why you should date a bodybuilder

1. They keep in shape

2. Their muscles alone make any other man rarely appealing to you

3. They encourage physical and behavioral healthy life styles

4. They make you feel like Lois Lane, always protected and never to be messed with.

5. Their strength can be a great benefactor for sexual positions (ha ha)

6. They will keep gym membership up and active even for you

7. They are able to pick, and hold you up like he-men's (we women love that)

8. They are not regularly hairy and if they are it's only a matter of time they get it fixed.

9. Children might be in your future for when at times parading around the house naked becomes normal to him and extremely hard for you

10. You might feel the need to take a cue from them and diet & exercise if you don't normally eat healthy or exercise.

10 reasons why you should not date a bodybuilder

1. They tend to nag you about your weight even if you are average size (This just means in bodybuilder terms that some leanness on you would make you look hotter. If you're already hot with a nice shape, they might as well test the waters more and get you cut or toned up)

2. Everything you start to put in your mouth they will read off the number of calories in that particular food

3. They can be cocky about themselves a little too much

4. Everything relates to the arm muscle (bicep). An example would be watching a horror movie and I say, "Michael Myers is so scary." And he would say "I'll knock Michael out with one blow." As he will then hold up his arm making his bicep bigger looking back at you and smiling like he just save the world.

5. Every day is a gym day that takes top priority, even over you sometimes.

6. Because of their bigness and muscular strength at times they tend to hold no gentle touch. They are like rough teddy bears and sometimes a play hit can feel serious.

7. They always like action movies because they can relate to the heroic manly, built and muscular man probably wishing it was them. So going out to see another genre will be hard

8. They are forbidden to allow you, themselves, and even kids go fifty feet of distance of anything FRIED. Fried food is devil food (except on cheat days when they turn into hypocrites)

9. Everything they wear must reflect their muscles which will tend to drive you crazy but women are like that in dressing up so it's a mutual nag.

10. They spend more time in the mirror looking at them more than you do.

 

Relationship Baggage...Are You Suffering For it?

 

 

Why do people make other people pay for other people mistakes when they enter a new relationship? I have so many girlfriends come to me and tell me another tiff they got into with their men and then they will get into everything and then actually excuse the guy and his behavior because he’s a certain way. Like for an example “I told him how much I didn’t want to be treated like that because of what happened to me with Rick when we broke up, and as soon as we get into an argument over what was nothing he uses his ex against me and attacks me calling me and her the same bitches because you know he already got trust issues so I have to tread lightly on everything not to set him off!” I don’t even know where to begin when you look up for a retort. No woman or guy coming into a new relationship should have to suffer for other’s people mistakes and you should not tolerate it because you were not there, had no associating with how his or her last relationship when it all went down so the best thing to do is make that known to him or her at first and if he can’t get over it than you need to tell him or her goodbye. It will never work if you are already the comparison of the last bitch or asshole in their eyes that tore their world apart. They will be looking for you to fail like their ex’s failed them. Make it known that this is a new dawn new damn day, and you ain’t having it. You are a completely different person also trying to find a good person to mesh with and is not bringing that into the relationship so they should not either. They can either let go and deal with what lies ahead or they need to be alone until they are fully heal. Emotionally it’s draining and you feel like crap when you aren’t the one that initially caused his or hers warped issues in the first place.

Dating with kids—I heard a woman who I learned took some sort of life class and told me they teach people to wait a year if the relationship longevity aggresses for the introduction of kids, then if talks of marriage come into play wait another year to be together and then get married. She made it like if you don’t get the time slot perfect it want work. I agree a small tiny percent, but the other crap is nonsense. If you have kids and have left their father and now you are pursuing other people you need to live by four words, Respect the Kids first. You respect your kids, if you put them first over what you want, you don’t need to wait forever and a friggin day to finally fulfill a gap. You need to go by what the kids are feeling and sensing to know when and how to tread with a new man. Mind you kids might hold a grudge or will never accept mommy or daddy moving on without mommy or daddy that’s when you need to then sway, yes sway your kids to proving that the new person is genuinely a good for you and them. Not force to them to know but get them to know it, baby step it. Remember dad to them has been dad always so don’t bring other wannabe dad’s into their lives so fast. Let you and him be about you and him and leave them out for awhile. You’re life is no longer consistent with one man in it now. You’re dating now, so one, two, or three or four men might not make the cut right off the bat. However it is not a good look for your kids to meet these men right off the bat. Give it three or four months I say because by then you should know this person well enough to see how genuine he is by now to meet your kids. It is a complex subject and sometimes women have no disassociating from dating and wanting something real. Some women having left their long-term relationships don’t want to breathe or “have fun” so needless to say keep the children out of it, with none being the wiser. Children do not want to see guy after guy it creates the look that a relationship like that is normal because that’s what they have grown up to see. If you want a another committed man like the one you left though it wasn’t that committed obviously than you need to do it smart and bide your time.

What If You Could Create & Control Human Strength Mentally?

There are a number of things I could think of but what about you? Forget the seconds of rarely obtaining strength in danger or saving a life. If you had the ability to control super human strength at any giving time mentally or perhaps through strong emotion, would you use your power for good in secret or otherwise? What is the ultimate gift of having human strength that is so unprecendented and unimagable, unless on TV, to you?